Mary Anna Custis Lee
Mary Anna Randolph Custis Lee
b. 1808 · d. 1873
Wife of Robert E. Lee Robert E. Lee b. 1807 · d. 1870 United States Army officer who spent much of his childhood in Alexandria at the house on Oronoco Street before his West Point appointment, and who later commanded Confederate … , daughter of G. W. P. Custis G. W. P. Custis b. 1781 · d. 1857 Step-grandson of , raised at Mount Vernon, builder of Arlington House, and father-in-law of . , and great-granddaughter of Martha Washington. Brought Arlington House and its Mount Vernon-derived collections into the Lee household.
Mary Anna Randolph Custis was the only surviving child of George Washington Parke Custis and Mary Lee Fitzhugh Custis. Through her father she was the step-great-granddaughter of George Washington and inheritor of Arlington House and its collection of Mount Vernon relics. She married Robert E. Lee Robert E. Lee b. 1807 · d. 1870 United States Army officer who spent much of his childhood in Alexandria at the house on Oronoco Street before his West Point appointment, and who later commanded Confederate … on June 30, 1831 at Arlington and bore seven children, three of whom — G. W. Custis Lee G. W. Custis Lee b. 1832 · d. 1913 Eldest son of and ; Confederate major general; later president of Washington and Lee University succeeding his father. , W. H. F. "Rooney" Lee W. H. F. "Rooney" Lee b. 1837 · d. 1891 Second son of and ; Confederate major general of cavalry; later U.S. Representative from Virginia. , and Robert E. Lee Jr. Robert E. Lee Jr. b. 1843 · d. 1914 Third son of and ; Confederate captain. Author of the 1904 memoir *Recollections and Letters of General Robert E. Lee*, an essential primary source for Lee biographers. — served as Confederate officers.
Mary’s chronic arthritis and the wartime confiscation of Arlington (the Lee estate became Arlington National Cemetery in 1864) shaped her later years. She lived to see her husband installed as president of Washington College in Lexington, Virginia, and died there in 1873.
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